Day 20 – Saturday, January 25: “Transgenerational Wisdom”
Alejandra Espejel

TRANSGENERATIONAL WISDOM

Ephesians 6:1-4 states: 1 “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.
2 Honor your father and your mother, which is the first commandment with a promise,
3 so that it may be well with you and that you may live long on the earth.
4 And you, fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.”

This passage is not a mere exhortation for children to obey, akin to a secular pamphlet on parent-child relationships that simply states, “Children, obey your parents.” Rather, it articulates, “Children, obey your parents in the Lord.” The critical aspect of this commandment lies in the phrase “in the Lord.”

Children are called to obey not merely because their parents desire it, but because it is what the Lord Jesus desires. Thus, this responsibility extends to Christ Himself. The term "obey" translates from the Greek to signify being under the authority of another; it means to follow orders. In essence, it directs children in a straightforward manner: “Do what your parents say.”

Paul immediately provides a rationale for this exhortation: “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.” This indicates that such obedience aligns with a fundamental reality; it is foundational to the laws of life. Adhering to this principle ensures that all goes well, while disregarding it leads to turmoil, as it violates one of life's cardinal rules.

The evidence of this truth is evident all around us; just observe social media or listen to the news. The alarming rise in crime and rebellion is a testament to a generation misled into believing that obedience is unnecessary and devoid of significance. The Apostle presents obedience not merely as a suggestion but as a golden rule for our lives.

In verses 2 and 3, the Apostle deepens our understanding. He transitions from actions to attitudes, emphasizing that it is not enough to simply obey; one must obey in a manner that honors both mother and father. The attitude of obedience coupled with respect is crucial, for it carries a promise: “It will be well with you.” It is indeed possible to obey with an attitude of cold indifference, which, while technically correct, lacks warmth and sincerity. One can seemingly comply outwardly while harboring an internal desire to challenge the authority set in place. Thus, obedience must manifest not only in action but also in attitude, approached from the Lord's perspective, who knows our hearts and imparts the wisdom necessary for righteous living.

Lastly, in verse 4, the Apostle instructs, “Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger to the point where they completely lose control and rebel against authority.” He warns that “anger results in rebellion,” and identifies two catalysts for such anger: indulgence and cruelty. These extremes contradict the directive to “bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.” However, discipline infused with love, as taught by Christ, serves as the perfect remedy.

“Let us pray to cultivate loyalty, sincerity, honesty, and openness in our children. May we ensure that the lines of communication remain open, allowing them to mature into individuals who bring honor to their homes and to Jesus Christ. Let them experience the beauty and glory of femininity, alongside the freshness, strength, and vitality of masculinity, so they may grow into the men and women God intended them to be. As parents, this is our calling. May God grant us the grace to fulfill it in the light of truth and with heavenly wisdom.”